Dating a shorter guy

10-Nov-2016 11:24

The guy was miniature in stature but his confidence was through the roof.

He had no hesitation or shame and he regularly told us about his various conquests.

Why’d that all crumble to the ground when she jutted up 4-5 inches above me?

Normally I’d feel myself; completely comfortable and natural around her.

Which of course was ridiculous behavior that only led to ugly arguments.

It may put a shorter man at a disadvantage but it definitely doesn’t rule them out.Not once in the time I’ve known them (about eight years) have I heard them mention their height as a disadvantage.When I mention how they’re with a taller girl they give me a weird look or just shrug it off.Maybe she’d opt for canvas sneakers or fancy flat shoes. She was really attractive and I had a massive crush on her. I’d want to talk to her before or after class so badly. But when she decided to wear heels it wasn’t even close. Any feelings of manliness or confidence I had would disintegrate. I’d be paranoid that I was being judged by every person we’d walk past. Any person pointing at something near us was mocking the gaping difference between my girlfriend’s height and mine. Why did I feel so intimidated and insecure around taller women?

It may put a shorter man at a disadvantage but it definitely doesn’t rule them out.

Not once in the time I’ve known them (about eight years) have I heard them mention their height as a disadvantage.

When I mention how they’re with a taller girl they give me a weird look or just shrug it off.

Maybe she’d opt for canvas sneakers or fancy flat shoes. She was really attractive and I had a massive crush on her. I’d want to talk to her before or after class so badly.

But when she decided to wear heels it wasn’t even close. Any feelings of manliness or confidence I had would disintegrate. I’d be paranoid that I was being judged by every person we’d walk past. Any person pointing at something near us was mocking the gaping difference between my girlfriend’s height and mine. Why did I feel so intimidated and insecure around taller women?

I’m sure that some girls have a hard and fast rule that they won’t get with guys who are shorter than them. They’re the equivalent of guys who’ll only date a girl who’s a “9 or better.” No one wants to be with those people.