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In fact, the smarter you are, the more clueless you will be, and the more problems you're going to have in your dating life.Once upon a day I used to be pretty smart, and believe me, I had a lock on clueless. For simple things, it takes someone smart to really screw it up. Take piano, violin, tennis, swimming and Tibetan throat-singing lessons. Be "well-rounded."Well, you're a talented little bugger. At the same time, there's an opportunity cost associated with achievement.And making someone feel a certain way is a somewhat nonlinear process that requires a different kind of mastery than that of calculus or Shakespeare.In other words, you need to earn love (or at least lust).Good results mean kudos, strokes, positive reinforcement, respect from peers, love from parents.So it only makes sense that in the romantic arena, it should work the same way. The more stuff I do, the more accomplishments and awards I have, the more girls (or boys) will like me. Please say I'm right, because I've spent a LOT of time and energy accumulating this mental jewelry, and I'm going to be really bummed if you tell me it's not going to get me laid.Especially if you had a sibling who was better looking than you, in which case she (or he) was The Pretty One.

Those kids graduate and pretty much continue to have the same dating woes -- only now with fewer single people around who happen to live in the same building and share meals with them every day.

So maybe you dress frumpy and don't pay a lot of attention to your appearance.

Or never bothered to cultivate your sensuality as a woman. Attracting a partner is all about the dance of polarity.

And if you're frustrated with your love life, you just might try to compensate by working harder and achieving even more to fill that void.

Left untreated, this condition can go on for decades.

Those kids graduate and pretty much continue to have the same dating woes -- only now with fewer single people around who happen to live in the same building and share meals with them every day.So maybe you dress frumpy and don't pay a lot of attention to your appearance.Or never bothered to cultivate your sensuality as a woman. Attracting a partner is all about the dance of polarity.And if you're frustrated with your love life, you just might try to compensate by working harder and achieving even more to fill that void.Left untreated, this condition can go on for decades.Because heaven knows that the amoeba, worm, fish, amphibian, monkey and primitive hominids didn't do a whole lot of thinking.